Carried away

They say that you can't change a man. But once in a blue moon, you can change a woman. But what if there's no one to change for. What if the man is so hung up in being who he is that he can't even find the time to make room for someone else? So what's the point of the woman making any effort to fix things. And I'm not talking about quick fixes either, but the ones that really matter. The kinds that you know would make everything better. The problem is that you have to feel it's worth it though. And I'm not feeling it, not from him. How can it be so hard to take somebody else into consideration? It's not like I'm asking for a ring around my finger or his left leg or kidney. I would just be nice to feel missed or wanted when two people have spent so much time apart. But I don't have that. I have distance, making me feel like a needy chick, and a silence that's growing ever longer until that inevitable point - will we make it or is it already over?

From Sex and the City: I didn't know what Berger's verdict was going to be, but I knew mine. Too bad that break up came on a post-it.